Perhaps you never really thought about a true faith foundation. One that can only be built after making an Exodus from you current position. Maybe you have never understood how to change the patterns and thoughts that are holding you back. Maybe you know exactly what you want but are just not sure what the first step is to getting there.
I mean really ask yourself in this moment, “What should my top priorities be?” “How do I identify them, and then set about obtaining them?” How many days or years have been spent just “SURVIVING”? It was such an awful way to live. And I did for years.
You’re probably familiar with what happened to the house that was built on sand. No good would come of it. While this gateway program could help men from many walks of life it will only ring true for those with a desire and willingness to live by God’s design. I am convinced that there is little meaning and understanding to be had with this world apart from God.
Let’s get one thing straight. I am not offering you the proverbial magic bullet. Nothing works without the commitment from you. In order to be transformed the desire has to start from within. This is not about your wife needing to change. It’s not about your kids needing to change. None of them are there for your comfort. They shouldn’t have to “earn” your love and affection. It should be given freely.
I have seen to many kids whose lives are in utter chaos because the man couldn’t or wouldn’t step up to the place God called him to be.